التربية الجميلة - نزار قبانى

نحب أن نشارك أصدقائنا الأراء التالية عن تربية أولادنا المحبة والتسامح من قصيدة لنزار قبانى فهل تسمحون لي ان اربي اطفالي كما اريد، وألا تملوا علي اهواءكم واوامركم؟ هل تسمحون لي ان اعلم اطفالي ان الدين لله اولا، وليس للمشايخ والفقهاء والناس؟ هل تسمحون لي ان اعلم صغيرتي ان الدين هو اخلاق وأدب وتهذيب وامانة وصدق، قبل ان اعلمها بأي قدم تدخل الحمام وبأي يد تأكل؟ هل تسمحون لي ان اعلم ابنتي ان الله محبة، وانها تستطيع ان تحاوره وتسأله ما تشاء، بعيدا عن تعاليم أي أحد؟ هل تسمحون لي الا اذكر عذاب القبر لاولادي، الذين لم يعرفوا ما هو الموت بعد؟ هل تسمحون لي ان اعلم ابنتي اصول الدين وادبه واخلاقه، قبل ان افرض عليها الحجاب؟ هل تسمحون لي ان اقول لابني الشاب ان ايذاء الناس وتحقيرهم لجنسيتهم ولونهم ودينهم، هو ذنب كبير عند الله؟ هل تسمحون لي ان اقول لابنتي ان مراجعة دروسها والاهتمام بتعليمها انفع واهم عند الله من حفظ آيات القرآن عن ظهر قلب دون تدبر معانيها؟ هل تسمحون لي ان اعلم ابني ان الاقتداء بالرسول الكريم يبدأ بنزاهته وامانته وصدقه، قبل لحيته وقصر ثوبه؟ هل تسمحون لي ان اقول لابنتي ان صديقتها المسيحية ليست كافرة، والا تبكي خوفا عليها من دخول النار؟ هل تسمحون لي ان اجاهر، ان الله لم يوكل احدا في الارض بعد الرسول لان يتحدث باسمه ولم يخول احدا بمنح 'صكوك الغفران' للناس؟ هل تسمحون لي ان اقول، ان الله حرم قتل النفس البشرية، وان من قتل نفسا بغير حق كأنما قتل الناس جميعا، وانه لا يحق لمسلم ان يروع مسلما؟ هل تسمحون لي ان اعلم اولادي ان الله اكبر واعدل وارحم من كل فقهاء الارض مجتمعين؟ وان مقاييسه تختلف عن مقاييس المتاجرين بالدين، وان حساباته أحن وارحم؟ هل تسمحون لي؟؟؟؟

To Hard Working Dads

Very inspiring story sent to us and would like to share it will all Dads:

A man came home  from work late, tired and irritated, to find his 5-year  old son  waiting for him at the door.

SON: "Daddy, may I ask you a question?"

DAD: "Yeah sure, what is it?" replied the  man.

SON: "Daddy, how much do  you make an hour?"

DAD: "That's none of your business. Why do you ask such a thing?" the man  said angrily.

SON: "I  just want to know. Please tell me, how much do you make an  hour?"

DAD: "If you must  know, I make Rs.100 an hour."

"Oh," the little boy replied,  with his head down.Looking up, he said, "Daddy, may I  please borrow Rs.50?"

 

The  father was furious, "If the only reason you asked that is so you can  borrow some money to buy a silly toy or some other nonsense, then you  march yourself straight to your room and go to bed. Think about why you  are being so selfish. I work hard everyday for such this childish  behavior."

The little boy quietly  went to his room and shut the door. The man sat down and started to get even angrier about the little boy's  questions. How dare he ask such questions only to get some  money?

After about an hour or so, the  man had calmed down, and started to think: Maybe there was something  he really needed to buy with that Rs.50 and he really didn't ask for  money very often. The man went to the door of the little boy's room and  opened the door.

"Are you asleep, son?" He asked.

No daddy, I'm awake," replied the boy.

"I've  been thinking, maybe I was too hard on you earlier," said the  man.

"It's been a  long day and I took out my aggravation on you. Here's the Rs.50 you  asked for." The little boy sat straight up, smiling. "Oh, thank  you daddy!" He yelled.

Then, reaching under his pillow he pulled out some crumpled up bills. The man, seeing that the boy already had money, started to get angry  again. The little boy slowly counted out his money, and then looked up  at his father.

"Why do you want more money if you already have some?" the father  grumbled.

"Because I didn't have enough, but now I do," the little boy  replied.

"Daddy, I have Rs.100 now. Can I buy an hour of your time? Please come home early tomorrow. I would like to have  dinner with you."

One Song - One World

From a dear friend: "Below is a link to one of the best pieces of sound engineering work I think I have ever seen.  It is a composite audio/video of song whereby additional tracks were laid in by different singers and musicians from different places around the world.

The finished product is tremendous!"

 

"The song itself is that classic standard "Stand By Me" originally released in 1955 by The Staple Singers and released again in 1961 by the Drifters......"

http://vimeo.com/moogaloop.swf?clip_id=2539741

"May all find a part to play. May all appreciate the contributions of others…"

Universal House of Justice, December 2008

Love

Bob Sinclar - Love Generation